No, Igg-Ro.... thats not it....
Cousin Rachel
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This is Rachel, my sisters daughter. She was born with Williams Syndrome. Its like Downs Syndrome, but with a lot of health issues tossed into the mix.
When my sister announced she was pregnant, I cringed a little. Not because my sister is a bad person... quite the contrary.... BUT.... she has rather high expectations for things.
She has two masters degrees, and if her child didnt have at least a Phd, then the kid was never going to hear the end of it. I felt the kid was going to educated to death.... and not have much fun.
Now with Rachel, when she learned to tie her shoe laces, or count to five.... that was a HUGE accomplishment....... and all the focus my sister was going to put towards the Phd is now being applied to get Rachel the best therapy, the best medical attention, and the best future she could possibly have.
I really believe Rachel was born to my sister for a reason. Both to keep a normal , happy kid from being book wormed to death.... as well as keeping a special needs kid from being tossed into a dark institution where they would never be seen or heard from again.
Rachel has made TREMENDOUS improvements with my sister. She was onlt given a 50/50 chance of making it past 4 years old. Shes coming up on 12 now.
Lifes really weird sometimes..... and maybe Amanda didnt die in the crash and from her burns because something is waiting for her down the road... Maybe she's going to help or save a person worse off than herself.. maybe her injuries will create some kind of new method to tread burn victims.. who knows.
All I know is that she shouldnt be with us, but she is .... and hopefully theres a reason why.